Anxiety: Test Taking
By Toniann Seals
Many students are exceptional in class, but find themselves below average on tests (both in class and standardized). How can the student who is continuously participating, going to extra tutoring sessions and always asking questions failing tests? There is a chance they are suffering from test taking anxiety.
Symptoms of test anxiety
- Hot flashes
Effects of test anxiety
- Feelings of not being good enough
- Feeling as though you are a failure
- Negative thoughts
- Lack of self esteem
Overcoming test anxiety is something that can be handled with a professional, however there are ways you can help yourself in the meantime.
- Begin studying early so you feel more confident and less anxious
- Have open communication with your teacher so they understand what you are going through
- Get enough sleep the night before
- Meditation can help anxiety
- Create affirmations and positive thoughts where you picture yourself doing well
If you or someone you know is dealing with anxiety speak with one of our licensed professional psychologists, psychiatrists, psychiatric nurse practitioners, and psychotherapists. Contact us at our Paramus, NJ or Manhattan, NY offices at (201) 368-3700 or (212) 722-1920 respectively to set up an appointment. For more information, visit http://www.counselingpsychotherapynjny.com/.
Social Anxiety: Phone Calls
By Toniann Seals
Does calling a restaurant to order food make you sick to your stomach? Do you have a fear of jobs whose expectations include answering phones? There is a good chance that you may have some form of social anxiety in relation to phone call phobias.
While you are on the phone do you:
- Feel your heart racing?
- Feel anxious?
Ways to handle a call and address issues when you suffer from social anxiety disorder:
- Practice your call in a mirror
- Talk to yourself before you talk to someone else.
- Write a script
- It is okay to have exactly what you want to say right in front of you. This can alleviate your social anxiety.
- Post it notes
- If you are doing a phone interview or at work, write a cheat sheet with common phone numbers, email addresses, resume details and facts that will come up frequently.
- Speak slowly and calmly
- Remind yourself that you do not need to rush. Take your time!
- Let an incoming call go to voicemail
- Voicemail is an option for a reason. If you are feeling exceptionally worried, take a moment and let it go to voicemail. You can always call back when you are ready.
If you or someone you know suffers from social anxiety speak with one of our licensed professional psychologists, psychiatrists, psychiatric nurse practitioners, and psychotherapists. Contact us at our Paramus, NJ or Manhattan, NY offices at (201) 368-3700 or (212) 722-1920 respectively to set up an appointment. For more information, visit http://www.counselingpsychotherapynjny.com/.
By: Sally Santos
In children the most common mental health disorder is depression. When a child is going through depression it may affect their mental and physical health. As mentioned in a Psychology Today article the symptoms “must also interfere with the child’s functioning in normal daily activities.” Since children are still young they are not able to communicate their feelings well to others. Children with depression can be helped that’s why it is important for parents, caregivers and teachers to recognize the signs of depression. Some of the symptoms are:
- Angry outburst
- Decreased in energy
- Feelings of hopelessness
- Lack of concentration
- Weight loss
- Refusal to go to school
According to the National Alliance of Mental Health “Once a young person has experienced a major depression, he or she is at risk of developing another depression within the next five years.”
If you are a parent and are concerned about your child having depression call the licensed psychologists, psychiatrists, psychiatric nurse practitioners, and psychotherapists at Arista Counseling & Psychotherapy can assist you. Contact our Paramus, NJ or Manhattan, NY offices respectively, at (201) 368-3700 or (212) 722-1920 to set up an appointment. For more information, visit http://www.counselingpsychotherapynjny.com/